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		<title>Are You Asking for the Sale?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Sep 2010 13:01:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer Fong</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You can be a master at social networking, an expert at building relationships, and have established a ton of credibility, but if you don&#8217;t use the influence you&#8217;ve built to ask for what you want, it&#8217;s not going to bring you much business. I spend a lot of time on this blog telling you NOT [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/j0409741.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-962" style="margin: 10px;" title="CBR001965" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/j0409741-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="199" height="300" /></a>You can be a master at social networking, an expert at building relationships, and have established a ton of credibility, but if you don&#8217;t use the influence you&#8217;ve built to ask for what you want, it&#8217;s not going to bring you much business.</p>
<p>I spend a lot of time on this blog telling you NOT to slam your friends with sales and opportunity posts.  And it&#8217;s valid counsel.  People do not come to social networks to be sold, and when you do so, you come across as a spammer that people avoid.  But that doesn&#8217;t mean you shouldn&#8217;t be asking for what you want in the appropriate places.  Learning the balance between being social and asking in the right way is the final key to using social media successfully for your business.</p>
<p>So how do you do that?  How do you ask for what you want without spamming?</p>
<p>Well first, you need to have a way to keep track of the people that DO want information about your business.  This can be a newsletter list, a Facebook Group or Page, etc.  When you have something to offer, be it a monthly special, the opportunity, etc, make sure that you let this group know.  You might write a post such as:</p>
<blockquote><p>I know you all love great deals!  That&#8217;s why you joined this group.  I&#8217;m so excited to share with you this month&#8217;s special.  Check out the dangle earrings for 50% off when you host a show!  If you&#8217;ve been thinking about hosting, now&#8217;s the perfect time.  Shoot me a private message and I&#8217;ll hook you up!</p></blockquote>
<p>Now this is one part of the equation: the general shout-out.  It&#8217;s done in an opt-in area where people have requested business information.  But it&#8217;s not the only part.  The next step is the individual invitations.</p>
<p>These can be done in two different ways: in the context of an online conversation, or through a private message to an individual.  This is where all those listening skills you&#8217;ve been developing over the past few months really pay off.  Let&#8217;s take a look at offering something in context first:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/black-gown.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3206" style="margin: 10px;" title="black gown" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/black-gown-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="199" height="300" /></a>Sarah</strong>: I&#8217;m so excited!  My husband and I have been invited to a fancy New Year&#8217;s Eve party this month.  Can&#8217;t wait to pick out the perfect dress!</p>
<p><strong>You</strong>: Sounds amazing!  What color are you going to wear?</p>
<p><strong>Sarah</strong>: Well, it&#8217;s a black and white ball, so I&#8217;m going for an all-black floor length gown.</p>
<p><strong>You</strong>: WOW! You&#8217;ll look stunning!  Have you got the jewels to go with it?</p>
<p><strong>Sarah</strong>: Oh, I don&#8217;t have anything that fancy.  Guess I need to shop for those too!</p>
<p><strong>You</strong>: I can help you find the perfect bling to complete your look, and help you get it for free.  Want to schedule a party?</p>
<p><strong>Sarah</strong>: Well you certainly can&#8217;t beat free.  And since I&#8217;ll already be springing for the dress, I won&#8217;t have a lot extra for bling. I can probably get something nicer if I host a party. Let&#8217;s schedule something after I pick out my dress.</p></blockquote>
<p>Notice that this wasn&#8217;t a general status announcement.  Rather, it was a targeted conversation, in response to something that the prospect said.  <em>The only way you will be able to take advantages of situations like these is by paying attention.</em> That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s so important to monitor the conversations on your friend lists regularly, and chime in now and then.  This way, people know who you are, and are used to hearing from you.</p>
<p>Now let&#8217;s look at the second way to ask for what you want: The private message.  Before we jump into this, I want to caution you.  I see WAY too many people abuse the private message.  If you do not already have an established relationship with someone, do not use the private message to pitch to them.  They&#8217;re likely to block you.  But if someone has heard from you regularly, or perhaps done business with you before, a private message can be a nice follow up.  One more note: this does not REPLACE a personal phone call if you can manage it.  You will always get better results on the phone than you will through an electronic message.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s take a look at the context in which a private message might work:</p>
<blockquote><p><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/dad-and-kids-by-kevindooley.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3207" style="margin: 10px;" title="dad and kids by kevindooley" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/dad-and-kids-by-kevindooley-201x300.jpg" alt="" width="201" height="300" /></a>You&#8217;ve been reading the status updates from your previous customer list.  You had approached Mark about the opportunity before, but he was much too busy.  You&#8217;ve stayed in touch, occasionally commenting on pictures of his kids, his &#8220;guy weekends&#8221; away, etc.</p>
<p>Mark mentions in a status update that he&#8217;s been laid off from his job.  In public, you offer your sympathy, and ask what he&#8217;s going to do next.  He says he&#8217;s not sure yet.  He&#8217;s applied a few places, but hasn&#8217;t had much luck finding something new yet.</p>
<p>Now is an opportunity to send Mark a private message, saying something like:</p>
<p>Mark, I know you mentioned you were laid off a few weeks ago, and are looking for something new.  As I mentioned to you a few months ago, I started working with my company after I got laid off.  I thought I&#8217;d do it until I could find something full time, but with enough time and effort, I&#8217;ve been able to replace my income, and spend more time with my kids.  If you&#8217;re looking to do something to bring in some income while looking for a full-time job, this might be a good solution for you.  Do you want to schedule some time to talk?</p></blockquote>
<p>See how the message draws on previous conversations, and related to what is currently happening in the individual&#8217;s life?  This is no form letter.  Rather, it&#8217;s personal, which is what we need to do as direct sellers.  It&#8217;s built upon the relationship we&#8217;ve already established with the person.  This is a message that&#8217;s a lot more likely to lead to a successful interaction.</p>
<p>We can&#8217;t assume that the people we interact with on a daily basis on our social networks will convert into sales and recruits without us asking them to.  You must be willing to take that final step appropriately, in order to achieve the business results you&#8217;re seeking.</p>
<p>What do you think? Do you ask for the sale online?  How? Would love to read your thoughts in the comments below.</p>
<p><em>Image Credits: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/freakapotimus/3117753252/" target="_blank">freakapotimus</a>, <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/pagedooley/525006769/" target="_blank">Kevin Dooley</a></em></p>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Try to Circumvent the System</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 11:44:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer Fong</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every now and then I receive a message from someone I barely know, asking me to &#8220;Like&#8221; their Page, become a follower, etc.  In fact, I just recently got one from someone who had apparently sent a first message, didn&#8217;t get enough responses, and was begging for enough people so she could get 25 followers [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/become-a-fan-coke.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3193" style="margin: 10px; border: 1px solid black;" title="become a fan - coke" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/become-a-fan-coke-300x190.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="190" /></a>Every now and then I receive a message from someone I barely know, asking me to &#8220;Like&#8221; their Page, become a follower, etc.  In fact, I just recently got one from someone who had apparently sent a first message, didn&#8217;t get enough responses, and was begging for enough people so she could get 25 followers (in order to get her Facebook URL.)</p>
<p>Now I have no problem with inviting people to check out your Facebook Page.  And if they have a genuine interest in what you have to offer, or are otherwise engaged by the content, &#8220;Like-ing&#8221; the Page is a logical next step.  But when you ask people more than once, especially as the gal I mention above did, you actually wind up undermining your credibility.</p>
<p>Any attempt to &#8220;game&#8221; the system, which means artificially inflating your follower numbers, might make you look good on paper, but it does nothing for your bottom line.  I have personally built my entire following on legitimate, one-to-one conversations and the delivery of valuable content.  I am always blessed when folks pass my <a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com" target="_blank">website</a>, <a href="http://twitter.com/jenfongspeaks" target="_blank">Twitter ID</a>, <a href="http://www.facebook.com/jenniferfong" target="_blank">Facebook profile</a>, etc. along to their friends.  But you don&#8217;t pass these along because I&#8217;m desperate for numbers and you feel sorry for me.  You pass them along because you find value in the connection to me.  It benefits you in some way, and you want your friends to have the same benefit.</p>
<p>When people follow you simply to be nice, they will never look at your content, and will never pass it along.  Instead, you have diminished your value by trading in a favor.  Instead of showing me how you&#8217;ll benefit me, you&#8217;re simply showing me that all I am is a number to you.  I&#8217;ll never convert.  The number means nothing.</p>
<p>It can be so easy to be interested in building up the numbers of our following.  But that&#8217;s not the end game.  Instead, focus on providing value to people that want it.  If that gal asking for people to Like her Page went out and did a few parties, and invited customers to join her on Facebook instead, she would not only find people interested in what she had to offer, but she&#8217;d also increase her reorder business.</p>
<p>Numbers for the sake of numbers does nothing for the bottom line of your business.  Focus instead on inviting connections that benefit the person connecting with you.  You&#8217;ll enjoy much greater long-term success.</p>
<p>Your thoughts?</p>
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		<title>ENOUGH with the Annoying Game Invites!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 13:49:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer Fong</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Earlier this week I wrote about Facebook Events, and how there are certain things folks are doing with them that damage their credibility.  Today I want to talk with you about another oft-abused feature, and that&#8217;s the application invite. An application invite is when you invite someone else on Facebook to join you on an [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/dont_post_on_facebook.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2478" title="dont_post_on_facebook" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/dont_post_on_facebook-300x187.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="187" /></a>Earlier this week <a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/the-use-and-misuse-of-facebook-events/" target="_blank">I wrote about Facebook Events</a>, and how there are certain things folks are doing with them that damage their credibility.  Today I want to talk with you about another oft-abused feature, and that&#8217;s the application invite.</p>
<p>An application invite is when you invite someone else on Facebook to join you on an application, play a game, etc.  I find these intensely irritating.  As someone using social media for business, I haven&#8217;t the slightest desire to waste my time on Facebook playing games.  If you do spend your time on it, fine.  That&#8217;s your business (you&#8217;d better not consider that work time!)</p>
<p>But what stuns me is when I get game invitations from people I don&#8217;t even know, asking me to participate in the latest iteration of Farmville, Zooville, or whatever else people are currently playing.</p>
<p>Folks, let me be clear.  If you are using social media for business, you should NOT be sending game invites to random friends.  Period.  This is spam, and it wastes people&#8217;s time.</p>
<p>In addition to damaging your credibility and annoying people, it damages you in another way too.  You see, as soon as you send one, the recipient has the option of a link that says &#8220;Ignore all invites from this friend.&#8221;  I make liberal use of this link.  So the first time you send me one of these unbelievably annoying invites, it will also be your last time.  I&#8217;ll never see another thing you send.  You won&#8217;t know, of course.  Perhaps the next thing you send is something to do with your business. I won&#8217;t see it.  Ever again.  You&#8217;ve been blacklisted.  And so now your efforts to market to me are in vain.</p>
<p>Folks, is that silly game invite really worth the risk?</p>
<p>If you MUST send game invites, send them to your mom.  Leave your business contacts out of it.  They&#8217;re unprofessional, make you look bad, and potentially lose you customers.</p>
<p>Use your head.  Knock it off.</p>
<p>Your thoughts?</p>
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		<title>Is it Easy to Tell You Are in Business?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 12:46:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer Fong</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We spend a lot of time, if we&#8217;re using social media well, avoiding the hard sell in social media channels.  We remember that this is &#8220;social&#8221; media, not &#8220;sales&#8221; media, and therefore focus on building relationships with people that may ultimately result in new business.  But even if you are the best relationship-builder in the [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/open-sign-by-Symlinked.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3181" style="margin: 10px;" title="open sign by Symlink" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/open-sign-by-Symlinked-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>We spend a lot of time, if we&#8217;re using social media well, avoiding the hard sell in social media channels.  We remember that this is &#8220;social&#8221; media, not &#8220;sales&#8221; media, and therefore focus on building relationships with people that may ultimately result in new business.  But even if you are the best relationship-builder in the world, and neglect the necessary next step, your efforts may be wasted.</p>
<p>You see, once someone comes to know, like, and trust you, the natural next step is to want to find out more about you.  So what will they do?  They&#8217;ll visit your profile.  And this is when you have a big opportunity that some direct sellers are missing.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not a hard sell to list your business on your profile.  In every bio, every place you have the opportunity to list a link or work history, you should be highlighting your business.  After all, people are now coming TO YOU to find out more about you.  Are you prepared to receive them?  It amazes me how many direct sellers don&#8217;t list, or make publicly available through privacy settings, the business that they are in, and links where people can do business with them.</p>
<p>Here are the places your business should be listed:</p>
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<li><strong>Work History: </strong>If there is a work history section, add your company, title, and a link to your personal website.</li>
<li><strong>1 Sentence Bio: </strong>Most social networks provide a place for a bio.  List your business in a soft way.  For example, &#8220;I&#8217;m a mom of 3 kids who loves helping other moms save time in the kitchen, thanks to my Pampered Chef business.&#8221;  Emphasize how you help others, and give them a way to relate to you.</li>
<li><strong>Links: </strong>Most social networks also allow you to list at least one link.  If you have a blog (and can only add one link) make your blog your link.  If not, include a link to your personal website.  Otherwise, list both of these.  If possible, make it a link to the &#8220;about&#8221; page on your site.</li>
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<p>And this brings me to another point.  You should also make sure your About page on your personal website is well done.  It constantly astounds me how poor these are.  Now this is partly due to the fact that you can&#8217;t do too much personalization on the &#8220;About&#8221; page of your personal website.  (I understand the reasons for this, but consultants often make it worse.)  But you should ABSOLUTELY strip out the default text, and have a friendly, conversational tone focused on how you help others and why you love the business.  You also need to make sure you include a picture.</p>
<p>Chances are the person checking out your About page may be interested in the business.  If I just want to shop, I don&#8217;t really need to know much about you.  So is your About page geared towards recruiting?  Does it tell people how you love to support them?  Does it focus on the needs of the opportunity-seeker?  If you blog, does it contain information about how to reach your blog?</p>
<p>A few years back, when I was thinking about signing up with a particular direct sales company, I used the consultant finder and got a list of consultants in my area.  There were two who were quite close, so I visited their personal websites, and checked out their About pages.  One consultant included a picture of herself with her kids, and her story was one I could relate to.  I could tell she could help me learn the business and succeed.  The other one hadn&#8217;t bothered to fill it out.  All there was on her page was the default text, and she hadn&#8217;t even included a picture.  (Guess who I signed up under?)</p>
<p>Far too many people set up the About page on their personal website without thinking strategically about it.  This page can bring you business.  So make sure that when you set yours up, you consider your goal for that page, and how best to convert traffic from that page.</p>
<p>Building relationships is an important part of your efforts, but not the end of the story.  You must be building online presences that convert traffic from people who want to know more to people who want to do business.  If people can&#8217;t see that you&#8217;re in business, however, you&#8217;ve just wasted your efforts (and they&#8217;ll never convert.)</p>
<p>Can people tell that you&#8217;re in business?  How?  Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments!</p>
<p><em>Image Credit: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/symlink/2419664278/" target="_blank">Symlink</a></em></p>
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		<title>The Use &#8211; and Misuse &#8211; of Facebook Events</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 14:14:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer Fong</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Facebook Events can be a huge advantage for direct sellers who plan events.  Be it a party, individual appointments, opportunity events, fairs and expos, team meetings, etc, Facebook Events can provide reminders beyond the email which can ensure better attendance at your event. I recently sat with a group of very experienced corporate direct sales [...]]]></description>
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<p>Facebook Events can be a huge advantage for direct sellers who plan events.  Be it a party, individual appointments, opportunity events, fairs and expos, team meetings, etc, Facebook Events can provide reminders beyond the email which can ensure better attendance at your event.</p>
<p>I recently sat with a group of very experienced corporate direct sales folks, and demonstrated how Facebook Events could be part of the hostess coaching process.  There was huge excitement in the room as they realized the potential of this simple tool.</p>
<p>Yet we also have to be careful not to misuse this tool.  I&#8217;ve received a slew of non-applicable events, folks begging for my vote on one thing or another, etc, which can be intensely irritating, and a time waster.  So today&#8217;s post is about the use&#8230;and misuse&#8230;of Facebook Events.</p>
<p><strong>What Are Facebook Events?<br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;"><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Facebook-Events-home-page.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3163" style="margin: 10px; border: 1px solid black;" title="Facebook Events home page" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Facebook-Events-home-page-300x145.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="145" /></a>Let&#8217;s  begin at the beginning.  Facebook Events are a way to invite your friends to things.  I&#8221;ve written about them in this post: <a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/are-you-using-facebook-events/" target="_blank">Are You Using Facebook Events?</a></span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">When you click the Events link from the menu bar on the left side of your Facebook home page, you can access your Events home page.  From here, you can see what events your friends have invited you to for the week, who has birthdays, etc.  Facebook also includes upcoming event and birthday reminders in the upper-right corner of the Facebook homepage.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;"><strong>When Should I Use Facebook Events?</strong><br />
As I mentioned earlier, I believe that Facebook Events are an essential part of the hostess coaching process.  While Facebook Event Invitations do not replace a voice invitation (which should always be the first invitation a guest receives), they are a perfect reminder, and also allow the hostess to invite people she may not have a phone number for.  She can track who has RSVP&#8217;d for her party right on Facebook, and provide a link to the consultant&#8217;s replicated website, where guests can check out the products ahead of time, or place an order if they can&#8217;t attend. </span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">You can also use them for any live or virtual event.  An ice cream shop in my town uses them when it hosts blood drives.  This is a great use, because it reminds folks who want to attend so they don&#8217;t forget to get there that day.  Just make sure that when you invite folks, the event is relevant to them.  Nothing is more annoying than having to take the extra time to discover that you&#8217;ve been invited to something in Tennessee when you live in North Dakota.  A cardinal rule of social media is DON&#8217;T WASTE PEOPLE&#8217;S TIME!!!</span></strong></p>
<p><strong>The Misuse of Facebook Events<br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;">And that brings me to the misuse of Facebook Events.  The credibility you build in social media is your capital there.  The more respect and relevance you build, the more likely you can convert that capital into sales and recruits for your business.  When people get invitations to Events that are more likely to annoy them than achieve the results that you want, then it&#8217;s not a good call.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">One of these misuses is the use of Events to get votes.  I&#8217;ve seen more and more folks using Facebook Events to gather votes for contests, online recognition, and the like.  On one hand, I can see why people do it.  Unlike a message to the inbox, which is seen once and discarded, a Facebook Event has the potential to remain around for a while, and give reminders to the person you&#8217;ve sent it to.  But I have to say that this feels false to me.  If we have enough of a relationship that I&#8217;d WANT to vote for you, a message to the inbox (or better yet, a phone call) will suffice.  If you feel the need to resort to reminders via a feature not intended for what you&#8217;re using it for, maybe you shouldn&#8217;t be inviting that person to vote for you in the first place.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">Facebook Events, when used well, can provide tremendous benefits for your business.  The reminder feature can increase attendance at your events, and build awareness for your business.  But don&#8217;t just use this tool without thinking.  There are some times when it&#8217;s not the best tool in your arsenal, and is more likely to deplete your social capital than bring you the results you desire.  Be wise, and you&#8217;ll achieve better results.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">Do you use Facebook Events?  What are good uses you&#8217;ve seen?  Things that annoy you?  Would love to read your thoughts in the comments!</span></strong></p>
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		<title>The Art of Being In Mind</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Aug 2010 12:40:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer Fong</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let&#8217;s say you sell widgets.  They&#8217;re great widgets.  When people see your widgets, they love them.  In fact, your widgets are better than the average widget. The big box store down the road sells widgets too.  Your widgets are better.  But their widgets can be had at a moment&#8217;s notice.  In fact, as soon as [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/widget-by-mil8.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3131" style="margin: 10px;" title="widget by mil8" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/widget-by-mil8-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>Let&#8217;s say you sell widgets.  They&#8217;re great widgets.  When people see your widgets, they love them.  In fact, your widgets are better than the average widget.</p>
<p>The big box store down the road sells widgets too.  Your widgets are better.  But their widgets can be had at a moment&#8217;s notice.  In fact, as soon as someone thinks about widgets, they can get in their car, drive down the road, and 20 minutes later they have a widget.  They know this.  It&#8217;s predictable.  It&#8217;s easy.</p>
<p>But your widgets are better.</p>
<p>Your biggest challenge, however, is being the first thing people think of when they think widgets.</p>
<p>How do you occupy that all-important piece of real estate in a prospect&#8217;s mind, when they think of widgets?</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t have fancy, Madison Ave-produced commercials to remind people about you and your widgets.  And you&#8217;d love to be able to call each and every customer regularly to remind them about you and your widgets, but you simply don&#8217;t have enough hours in the day.</p>
<p>So how do you come to mind first when someone thinks about their need for a widget?</p>
<p>Social media is a goldmine when it comes to staying in your prospect&#8217;s mind, related to your product or opportunity.</p>
<p>First, you need to connect.  Find out where the buyers of widgets hang out online.  What are the popular social networks for widget lovers?  It might be the biggies like Facebook.  It might be widget-specific networks.  Find out where they are and join them. Jump into the conversation.  Share tips that you know about widgets.  Answer questions.  Be valuable.  People will come to associate you with widgets.</p>
<p>Next, invite every customer that buys from you once to connect with you online.  Comment on their pictures and statuses.  Become more than a widget salesperson.  Become a friend.</p>
<p>When it&#8217;s time for someone to purchase their next widget, will they think of big flashy ads for big box stores that sell everything?  Or will they think of the time you answered their question and gave them great advice about how to use their widgets?  They&#8217;ll feel warm inside when they remember how nice you were when you commented on the picture of their baby bunnies.  (They most likely have no warm and fuzzy associations with the big box store.)</p>
<p>Who will they think of when they need another widget?  They&#8217;ll think of you.  Because you&#8217;re in mind.</p>
<p>You must be present and participate in order to succeed in social media.  But when you do, you&#8217;ll be in mind.  And that&#8217;s a powerful place to be.</p>
<p><em>Photo credit: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/mil8/1085940988/" target="_blank">mil8</a></em></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2010 12:27:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer Fong</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I recently had a leader with a direct sales company reach out to me with the following question: How do you deal with/keep up with all your facebook friends?!   Here&#8217;s my story: I am at the top level with a national direct sales company so I feel that I have to say yes to [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/MP9004435651.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3077" style="margin: 10px;" title="MP900443565[1]" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/MP9004435651-300x189.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="189" /></a>I recently had a leader with a direct sales company reach out to me with the following question:</p>
<blockquote><p>How do you deal with/keep up with all your facebook friends?!   Here&#8217;s my story: I am at the top level with a national direct sales company so I feel that I have to say yes to everyone in my company who friend-requests me. But, I am overwhelmed by all the status updates and private facebook messages!</p>
<p>I feel guilty spending time on facebook when I think I should be spending time talking with &#8220;my team&#8221; but I know I&#8217;m part of a greater team (my company) and I&#8217;m also part of the greater facebook team and embracing social media.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve seen you become friends with a dozen people at a time and I&#8217;m wondering how you keep up! Are you reading all those status updates? Are you responding to all the personal messages?</p></blockquote>
<p>Now I&#8217;m not going to share with you the name of the individual that sent this, but I will share that this is a common dilemma that I hear often, both from top-level leaders in organizations, as well as corporate staff.  The very nature of our companies mean that we are typically connected to a LOT of people.  How on earth do you keep up with hundreds, or even thousands, of people online?  Especially when they all want the human touch from you?</p>
<p>I have a similar situation, as I have thousands of friends on Facebook and Twitter.  And I&#8217;ll be quite honest with you&#8230;there are not enough hours in the day to read every single status update, and answer every single request.  If I tried, I&#8217;d never be able to focus on my income-producing activity!  So how do I balance it?</p>
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<li>I connect with everyone involved in direct sales who requests it. This will work until I hit Facebook&#8217;s limit of 5,000, at which point I&#8217;ll be forced to send my business contacts over to a Page.  It&#8217;s not really something I want to do, because I much prefer building relationships and sharing value through my profile.  But I won&#8217;t have a choice at that point.</li>
<li>I pay more attention to the posts on my wall than anywhere else.</li>
<li>I scan posts in the news feed, and comment sporadically when I have time.  I don&#8217;t expect myself to read everything.</li>
<li>I have set up a group where people can ask specific questions about social media.  If I get one of those questions in my inbox, I send them to the group, or a blog post I&#8217;ve already written that answers it.  I simply don&#8217;t have enough hours in the day to answer individual messages from folks.  And when I do answer, I prefer for those answers to be in a public place, so others can benefit (and I don&#8217;t have to answer the same questions repeatedly, which isn&#8217;t the best use of my limited time.)  Thus, the group and the blog.</li>
<li>I set up friend lists, and look at the lists of posts from the people I need to follow up with.  Sometimes that&#8217;s family.  Sometimes that&#8217;s corporate contacts, where I do the bulk of my income-producing activities.  You get the idea.</li>
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<p>Now as leaders or corporate folks, it&#8217;s tough because you don&#8217;t want anyone to feel bad, but at the same time you need the time to do what you do best&#8230;lead.  You also deserve a private life.  Sometimes that&#8217;s hard when everyone wants something from you.</p>
<p>Now individual direct sellers&#8230;let me pause a moment here&#8230;I&#8217;m talking to you, specifically now.  Realize this is a dilemma your leaders have, and be sensitive to it.  Find the avenues your leaders have set up to get the information you need, and use them, even if it takes you 2 extra minutes.  And realize that if you&#8217;re not communicating through the official channels you&#8217;ve been provided, you may not get an answer.</p>
<p>For leaders, the answer is NOT 2 Facebook accounts.  Facebook may <a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/what-would-you-lose-if-facebook-shuts-down-your-account/" target="_blank">shut you down</a>.</p>
<p>Rather, adjust your <a href="http://www.facebook.com/privacy/explanation.php" target="_blank">privacy settings </a>so personal friends see those personal photos and updates you don&#8217;t want the whole world to see, while posts for business contacts are seen by those folks.  Facebook lists will be your best friend for this, so that you can adjust who sees what by list, rather than individual.  And in terms of responding, you simply won&#8217;t be able to respond to everything.  Don&#8217;t set the expectation that you will.  Rather, have specific places for specific interactions to occur, and then don&#8217;t make exceptions.</p>
<p>At the end of the day, I think it&#8217;s a good thing for leaders to connect online with people in their downline/in the field.  It makes us more accessible, more human, and people enjoy seeing us as a whole person, instead of just a business machine.  It makes the whole thing seem more do-able&#8230;if that person is a mom with kids and a sports schedule, etc, and they can reach that level, I can too!</p>
<p>Schedule the time you&#8217;ll work on contacts/requests outside your immediate team, focus on providing valuable content that everyone on your list can use, and let your personality shine through.  No, you won&#8217;t see everything from everyone.  But you will provide a view of your personal life that can be good for business.</p>
<p>How do you keep up with everyone on Facebook?  Would love to read your thoughts in the comments below!</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2010 14:08:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer Fong</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You probably face it daily. That moment of decision. It&#8217;s the time when you decide whether or not to hit the &#8220;Post&#8221; button. Will the information that you&#8217;re posting benefit your business?  That&#8217;s the big question.  You can get all the advice in the world about what types of content work best in social media [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/MP9004225341-Copy.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3078" style="margin: 10px;" title="Businesswoman  in Front of Doors" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/MP9004225341-Copy-300x241.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="241" /></a>You probably face it daily.</p>
<p>That moment of decision.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s the time when you decide whether or not to hit the &#8220;Post&#8221; button.</p>
<p>Will the information that you&#8217;re posting benefit your business?  That&#8217;s the big question.  You can get all the advice in the world about what types of content work best in social media when you&#8217;re using it for your business.  But in the end, it comes down to this moment.</p>
<p>And often it&#8217;s tempting to think that &#8220;just this once&#8221; you can do that general status update about the special you want to promote, your desperate desire to book just one more party, etc.</p>
<p>But it&#8217;s not worth it.</p>
<p>Self-promoting general status updates are not positive for your business.  If it&#8217;s about getting people to spend money with you, it&#8217;s only going to make you look bad&#8230;it&#8217;s spam.  Instead, invest your energy in creating an opt-in area (Group, Page, Newsletter&#8230;) where you CAN post such messages, because you&#8217;ve been given permission.  That&#8217;s where that type of message will be most effective.  Remember, it&#8217;s SOCIAL media, not SALES media.  And as a relationship marketer, you should be spending the majority of your efforts building relationships so that people want to opt-in for more information about your business.</p>
<p>In each moment of decision, ask yourself:</p>
<blockquote><p>Do people have to spend money to take advantage of this status update?</p></blockquote>
<p>If that answer is yes, don&#8217;t post it.</p>
<p>In that moment of decision, making the right decision, so that people don&#8217;t decide to hide you and you can continue to develop a relationship, is the BEST decision you can make.</p>
<p>Your thoughts?</p>
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		<title>How to Add an Opt-In Form to Your Facebook Profile</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Aug 2010 13:30:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer Fong</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday I shared with you the profile box I have on my Facebook Profile, where you can sign up for my newsletter.  I got a lot of questions on how you could do that on your own profile.  And while I do cover this in my Effective Facebook Strategies for Direct Sellers course, along with [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/is-social-media-the-ultimate-lead-generation-tool-for-direct-sales/" target="_blank">Yesterday I shared with you</a> the profile box I have on my Facebook Profile, where you can sign up for <a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/sign-up-for-jennifers-e-newsletter/" target="_blank">my newsletter</a>.  I got a lot of questions on how you could do that on your own profile.  And while I do cover this in my <a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/training/effective-facebook-strategies-for-your-direct-selling-business-course/" target="_blank">Effective Facebook Strategies for Direct Sellers course</a>, along with lots of other great ways to enhance your Facebook presence, I decided that today I&#8217;ll show you how to do it.</p>
<p>Quick caveat here, though.  Facebook keeps threatening to do away with Profile Boxes.  A box is the content that shows up on the left side of your Facebook profile below the pictures of your friends.  When Facebook does ultimately do that, this won&#8217;t work anymore.  <em>Update: Facebook announced today that boxes will be going away on August 23, 2010. Read more here: <a href="http://developers.facebook.com/blog/post/399">http://developers.facebook.com/blog/post/399</a></em></p>
<p>But in the meantime, here&#8217;s how to do it.</p>
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<li>From within Facebook, type Profile HTML in the search box at the top of your screen, and select Profile HTML when it appears.<br />
<a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Profile-HTML-Search.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3024" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="Profile HTML - Search" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Profile-HTML-Search.jpg" alt="" width="528" height="119" /></a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Profile-HTML-Search.jpg"></a>If Facebook prompts you, click Go To Application.</li>
<li>Once you reach the application, you&#8217;ll notice that there are two tabs near the top&#8230;profile tab and profile box.  A profile tab will create a new tab on your profile, along the top.  Unfortunately, you can&#8217;t name that tab anything other than &#8220;Profile HTML&#8221; so I don&#8217;t find it tremendously useful.  Instead, you want to click the tab here that says Profile Box.<br />
<a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Profile-HTML-application.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3025" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="Profile HTML - application" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Profile-HTML-application.jpg" alt="" width="585" height="181" /></a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Profile-HTML-application.jpg"></a>Once you click Profile Box, you&#8217;ll be taken to the Profile Box screen.  Note the warning that Facebook will soon do away with boxes.  Do you see the &#8220;Your Code&#8221; box under the pink warning box?  That&#8217;s where you&#8217;re going to put the HTML code your autoresponder creates for your newsletter.  (You could actually use any HTML here, so if you want to create a simple email form that just emails you people&#8217;s contact information, you could put that here too.  But this is not an HTML class, so I&#8217;m not teaching you how to do that here.)<br />
<a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Profile-Box.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3026" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="Profile Box" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Profile-Box.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="527" /></a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Profile-Box.jpg"></a>Now you need to go to your autoresponder service.  I use <a href="http://www.aweber.com/?315721" target="_blank">Aweber</a> (affiliate link), so  I&#8217;ll show you how to do this using that service.  Once you log into your account, and set up a list for your newsletter, you select that list and click the Web Forms tab near the top.  Then click the Create Web Form button.<br />
<a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/aweber-web-forms.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3027" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="aweber web forms" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/aweber-web-forms.jpg" alt="" width="580" height="223" /></a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/aweber-web-forms.jpg"></a>Fill in the details to design your web form. I would suggest avoiding the templates, because I&#8217;m not sure that they translate well into Facebook. Be sure to click Save Web Form when you&#8217;re done.<br />
<a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/create-a-web-form-aweber.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3028" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="create a web form aweber" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/create-a-web-form-aweber.jpg" alt="" width="546" height="441" /></a></li>
<li>After saving your web form, Aweber will ask you who is going to install your web form.  Click &#8220;I will install my form.&#8221;<br />
<a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/aweber-get-html-1.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3029" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="aweber get html 1" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/aweber-get-html-1.jpg" alt="" width="554" height="367" /></a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/aweber-get-html-1.jpg"></a>Your code will display.  Select Raw HTML Version, and I recommend that you uncheck the box at the bottom (the styles may come through, but I&#8217;m not sure.  If it does take, let me know in the comments.)  Then, select the code that displays, and copy it.<br />
<a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/aweber-get-html-2.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3030" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="aweber get html 2" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/aweber-get-html-2.jpg" alt="" width="551" height="388" /></a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/aweber-get-html-2.jpg"></a>Switch back to Facebook, and paste the code you just copied into the Profile HTML code box.  Be sure to click the Submit button at the bottom of the box.<br />
﻿<a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/profile-html-paste-code.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3031" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="profile html - paste code" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/profile-html-paste-code.jpg" alt="" width="532" height="485" /></a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/profile-html-paste-code.jpg"></a>Go to your profile and check out your new box!  You can click on the header of your box and drag the box to any position (below friends or lower) on your profile sidebar.<br />
<a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/profile-html-box-on-profile.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3032" style="border: 1px solid black;" title="profile html - box on profile" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/profile-html-box-on-profile.jpg" alt="" width="266" height="306" /></a></li>
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<p>That&#8217;s it!  (BTW, if you want to learn lots more tips on how to use Facebook effectively for your business, check out<a href="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/training/effective-facebook-strategies-for-your-direct-selling-business-course/" target="_blank"> my Facebook e-course</a>.)</p>
<p>Are you going to set up an opt-in box on your Facebook Profile?  How will that help your business?  Would love to read your comments below!</p>
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		<title>What Would You Lose if Facebook Shuts Down Your Account?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Aug 2010 12:34:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer Fong</dc:creator>
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<p>I got an email from one of my readers recently, telling me that Facebook had disabled her account for over-promotion.  A team member of hers had a similar experience&#8230;this gal had two accounts&#8230;one for personal and one for business&#8230;and Facebook shut them both down (although she eventually got the personal one back.)  My reader suggested that I might want to write a post about this, so that others can avoid what happened to her, and I thought it was a great idea.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.facebook.com/terms.php"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3003" style="margin: 10px; border: 1px solid black;" title="Facebook terms" src="http://www.jenfongspeaks.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Facebook-terms-300x158.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="158" /></a>Facebook Really Means Their Terms of Service<br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;">When you sign up for a Facebook account, you agree to their<a href="http://www.facebook.com/terms.php" target="_blank"> Terms of Service</a>. Check out Section 4 specifically.  By setting up your account, you agree not to set up more than one account, and you agree not to use your status updates to sell stuff.  And while Facebook is not consistent about enforcing these rules, they DO enforce them periodically, and without warning.  My guess is that they have programs that detect this stuff.  And they don&#8217;t tell you before they take your access away.  Are you really willing to sacrifice all you&#8217;ve built on Facebook for that?</span></strong></p>
<p><strong>What Could You Lose?<br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;">The gal that shared her story with me lost family pictures, connections to high school friends, fan pages, and business contacts, all because she copied and pasted a promotion on 12 Event walls.  Facebook did pop up a warning message telling her to stop, but it was too late.  She was instantly logged out and disabled. </span></strong></p>
<p>What do you rely on having access to within your Facebook account?  What could you lose by violating Facebook Terms of Service? Is that promotion really worth it?</p>
<p><strong>It&#8217;s SOCIAL Media<br />
</strong>I tell you guys this all the time, but seriously, pay attention.  Facebook is NOT about blasting sales and recruiting messages.  <strong> </strong>It&#8217;s about building relationships with people, getting to know them, and understanding their needs.  The sales messages are ONLY for opt-in areas (be it a Group, Page, or email list.)  It&#8217;s so easy to be tempted to post that great special &#8220;just this once,&#8221; but understand what you risk when you do.  If that&#8217;s the time that Facebook is looking at you, that could be the beginning of the end of your Facebook marketing efforts.</p>
<p>Using social media tools can bring tremendous benefits to your business.  As a direct seller, the relationship you build with your prospects and customers is the greatest success tool that you have.  But you MUST keep in mind that these are 3rd party sites with their own sets of rules, and you have to play by the rules in order to have access.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t let what happened to my reader happen to you.</p>
<p>Your thoughts?</p>
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